Quote Originally Posted by zooted999
Just out of curiosity, does anybody here ever worry about whether or not your next blowjob or one-night-stand might be from/with an HIV-positive partner?

I mean, oral sex and actual sex vary in your odds of catching it, but doesn't the mere thought of having sex with an HIV-positive partner even with a condom, well.. scare you?
Unfortunately, I can speak from experience. I have been HIV+ for almost 20 years. Yes, you should be afraid of contracting the virus. It can be a very nasty thing to have. It can also be lived with.

Since I became Positive, my sexual activity has nearly come to a halt. Not because I am Positive, but because others don't understand that there is more to a satisfying sexual experience than just intercourse anal or vaginal.

There's kissing, holding, touching, licking, sucking, stroking, toys up the yingyang (or elsewhere) all of which are safe to do. Ya know, a finger used to stimulate the "G-spot" and a soft kiss on the belly can be as if not more satisfying for the receiver than using your stick to poke at a hole or two. And it certainly helps if you make a point of pleasing your partner rather than just pleasing yourself.

But if you desire to weild your wand, wrap it. But guys, here is a hint, make sure it fits you tightly, and lubricate the outside. Your partner will get better "friction" if you and the condom are sliding in and out rather than you sliding in and out of the condom. Besides, a condom that sticks on the outside has a better chance of breaking than one that has the ability to slide around.