im sure after 8 years you have tried all different kinds of sex and of course after that long its goin to seem like its just a "routine". every time you do it it seems the same and its not fresh and exciting anymore

drive her somewhere one evening just as its gettin dark and do it parked up in the car somewhere,maybe do it once every week or two and drive to a different location each time.that might spice things up if you havent tried it already

id also agree you should use a wide assortment of toys and costumes and roleplay,get drunk or blunted and try all different positions everytime,dont just stick to one position.

have you tried massaging each other with scented oils and taking long candle light baths together???put the show head on full and stick it right against her coochie!!!!!! they love that

theres loads of different ways to make it fun man,it sounds to me like maybe she has a wild dirty side to her and she just wants you to take control and give her wat she needs,try a bit of rough,pull the hair and bite the neck and nippels and squeeze her all over.ride her like a wild animal