I think she just wants sex to be fun again. Women get tired of the lets go into the bedroom and fuck routine. If she has self esteem issues (not saying she does) movies arenâ??t going to help because people always look worse on video. Think about how you had sex when it was at itâ??s best and think about the reasons why it was that way (for both of you) were you sneaking around, what we the circumstances of your relationship. It also helps if you make her feel wanted in non-sexual ways. Believe me if a woman feels wanted and sexy than she will go to great lengths to please her man.

Whatever the case she doesnâ??t seem to be communicating to you what she needs. She thinks you should just know her well enough to know what she wants (bad move on her part.) Have her give you examples what she means when she wants sex to be fun. And when she tells you find out what aspect of that activity makes it fun. Does she think itâ??s fun because itâ??s dangerous, impulsive, rough, romantic, vocalâ?¦..what? Once you figure out what she needs than you should be able to find different ways to help meet that need.

Good luck