~ Watch porn together.
~ Mutual masturbation. Watch each other.
~ Bring in toys. And use them on her.
~ New positions... just ask her if she would like to try 'this' or 'that'. You've been with her for 8 years, you all should be able to communicate perfectly.
~ Maybe anal?
~ Try some light bondage. Handcuffs and blindfolds are a good start. My ex bought these strap/rope things that ties to the bed frame.. it's really fun because she's in a compromising position so you can tease her or do what you want (of course, with her allowing). I've tied my ex to it and I had a lot of fun teasing him and doing all sorts of stuff.
~ Look into Kama Sutra.. I don't know much about it, but there are lots of books that explain what it is and how to do it.
~ Try having sex in public... that can be VERY exhilarating.

Sex is fun... don't be embarassed if you can't keep it up sometimes. It happens to everyone, especially while using condoms. Laugh it off and try again later. I mean, sometimes while I'm having sex there will be an awkward moment, or something funny happens (queefing, problems unhooking the bra, i can't get his belt undone, and I've even had guys fart while doing me).. and all this time we're both laughing. Shit like that happens and it just makes it more entertaining.

Good luck!
zephyrinne Reviewed by zephyrinne on . Fun sex? Ok heres how it goes..... I been in a long relasionship with my gf 8 yrs to date. Our sex is still very active, but she said to me the other day, we need to have FUN sex! She thinks im too serious?? i dunno! So like theres times where i cant keep it up cos of thos evil damn condoms! and wen this happend i get all frustrated and pissed as im all embarressed, but shes like we should just laugh n stuff?? what the im thinking lol So fun sex eh? bring in toys? well we have loads of thos Rating: 5