Fun sex?

[DonnieDarko]

How have you done it all these years Donnieâ?¦come on no man is that good in bed. Not even with your mining helmet are you that good.

Is the dream really that good or is it all just stories mothers tell their little girls?

Tell likem :stoned:

likem, thanks for the compliments ... you're my biggest fan in Oklahoma ... so I'll tell .......

The reason that I know as much as I do is that I've made lots of the typical man mistakes ... all well intended at the time:

1) Putting my job over the family relationship
2) Using sex as an intimacy replacement
3) Controlling .... solved all family problems by myself

The root of these types of problems are typically lack of communication, They can be worked through in lots of cases ... (Some problems like cheating or physical abuse are deal-breakers).

There was a point when my wife said that sex was boring for her .... but what she meant that the relationship was boring her. I had 10 years invested in the marriage and 2 small daughters ... and OUCH ! I thought that I was doing things right ... luckily, we used the opportunity to work things out.

So the answer is ... no, I'm not THAT good in bed LOL, .... We have learned to communicate and solve problems together, 27 years married, although years 7-10 were especially difficult, and seemed like a million years.


That's my story ...

DonnieD

[dog420]

After 8 years ... I think that likem's got it right.

I think that your gf's issues go deeper than sex ... I'd guess that she wants more intimacy in the relationship .. more conversation, more trust, more compliments, more being best friends. This may be an indication that she wants more out of the relationship ...

Please note that I am not a counsellor and I may be all wet in my analysis. I'm just writing from experience.

Hit the nail right on the head mate.... ty

Peace

[willystylle]

She's obviously bored with your dick and wants a 3-way. J/k.

No dude just buy a few DVD's maybe a pair of handcuffs and take it from there.

I personally NEVER have this problem - I still say that I could make a nympho tired of sex....