I dont agree wiht the "he pulls out" shit.
even if you get jsut s teeny bit on your vaginal opening you cna STILL get pregnant. and pre-ejaculate fluid also contains trace amounts of sperm that CAN cause women to become pregnant.

either use a condom, or BC, or both.
..or just have ONE partner. i dont get whats with this "I've got five bitches" thing. its lame.
My finacee and I ahve been together 2 years, and I have NEVER made him wear a condom. he lost his virginity to me, so obviously I had nothing to worry about dealing with STDS. I get tested at the gyno once a year.

as for the weight gain due to the shot. its a MYTH. I've not gianed wieght since on it. I'm not ohnestly THAT active. yes I ride horses, but my body has been adjusted to that for over 10 years.
..if you can get off your ass and WALK for 30 minutes daily 3 times a week, I dont see what the problem is.

there, 2 things I hate the absoloute most, wait no..three.

-People with boyfriends who "pull out" and think its "safe"
-LAZYNESS
-people who think its OK to have multiple partners, or have a partner and NOT have them tested before sex.

..call me a prude, or whatever the hell you want. but responsiblity is a key factor in having sex. yea, it feels GREAT, but its not really suppose to happen until your an ADULT. I see all these teenagers running around advertising themselves (especially the females) hell, american eagle might as well sell shirts that say "Cum Dumpster" on them.

..seriously.

but yea, the shot is the way to go if your not a fatass already.