Quote Originally Posted by Gen
Do not take the pill!!!!!!! Ever. This is very dangerous for young women. They're finding the pill is associated with cancer, etc.

This is the natural way to prevent pregnancy I tell women. This has worked for me for many years. Day 1 of your period up to day 5 you are safe. He can ejaculate inside you. Day 6 through day 15 you will ovulate and sperm can stay alive for several days dangerous days to avoid pregnancy. Only have sex during these days with a condom. Or he withdraws before he comes. You will not get pregnant if you follow these rules. After day 15 you cannot get pregnant till you start your period again.
All girls are different... Girls can ovulate at different times each month. And it can change slightly from month to month. There are no 'exact' or 'set' days when it's safe to have sex with or without protection. Yes, ovulation follows a general schedule, but this cannot be used as the safest way. It's never safe to have sex without some form of contraception, whether it's the pill, shot, or a condom at ANY time of the month.

The rhythm method, as you're describing, heavily relies on whether a woman has a regular period every month. Many women do not. I've seen from different info that it's only 87-92% effective. Compare that with over 99% for the pill. But if you're doing this method, you have to be perfect with checking physiological signs and changes to the body. It's a big effort, but it can be done with careful planning.