There must be a reason for any such actions you speak of - some folks do better to avoid the chat room, if they find (and/or are informed) their chat conversation is coming across offensive, etc to others.

If you still have absolutely no clue, then try contacting a mod *privately* (you can do p2p in chatroom) and discuss the matter further - no guarantees, but you may be able to work things out.

Glad you like the site and thank you for your feedback.

Ron

p.s. cafe membership helps us cover costs, gives you access to PM, and the cafe members area; a nice title under your name.