Quote Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
I can't say wether or not you were right to send it but wasn't she mucking you about and not been honest with you anyway.I have sent a couple of nasty emails to this guy I was just friends with because he kept bullshitting me and then saying I had got it all wrong and that I wasn't a very good friend.Obviously I don't talk to him anymore but I don't lose any sleep over it.

When will people realise that the perfect partner is never going to be found on the net?
If you were just friends then don't you think it was a little OTT to send nasty e-mails just because he wasn't living up to expectations?
Surely it was your mistake for falling for his BS in the first place?
It may sound harsh but it is your own responsibility to protect yourselves from the risks. Peoples relaxed attitude towards the net and trust and the idea that people on the net are any more open or honest and trustworthy than the people in your own street is just ridiculous. I take everything I am told by someone with a large pinch of salt because people like to embelish and make themselves appear better than they are and honesty seems far too often the last thing on the agenda.This and the fact that you only get one persons opinion of the "friend" you choose and thats their own opinion.
If you were to ask me what I think of me and then you asked my friends the same question you would notice we gave slightly different answers and without that "second opinion" you're really taking a massive gamble.