it turns me off when i'm with a lady and her friends keep calling her up trying to talk to her, constantly text message and take up her time (especially other guys) distracting us from our business. i've seriously not been able to get laid the past 2 times (weeks apart btw) cause this girl i've kind of been seeing has a b/f who constantly calls and gets possessive with her, gives her the 3rd degree, treats her like shit and gets borderline with her on the phone , and totally just kills the mood, and also he makes her cry on the phone. i still don't have the heart to say "leave your loser boyfriend cause i'd treat you better". it's life.