dude you got some good points but the one point you made bout girls who like being treat like shit you ever hear girls love bad guys not good guys its a really hard concept to learn especially when you treat girls all your life and you treat the one girl who wants a good and you think she wants a bad guy it sucks and you lose her just dont worry man it seems like you want a girl well maybe you already have her and she wont say so. i am stoned so i had a vision quest