You're partially correct. After we started dating she took a promotion that took her to another office. Two reasons; A. we didn't want to keep it a secret anymore and B. we wanted to have time to 'miss' each other.

Presently, she stays home and I bring the cheese. Don't have to worry about her looking at other men. For some reason, the fact that I can punch out the 10-ring on a center-mass target frightens her. I have no idea why.