Quote Originally Posted by WhiskeyGirl
Well, here is my story:
I was married to guy for 10 yrs 2 kids by him , and I from a previous relationship. My x was all for family and kids , which was kool, but he had a temper and would do assanine shit, like if I walked by the bathroom while he was brushing his teeth, he would flip out and slam the door shut!!?? WTF?
Any way, he had a job when we first got married , then he lost it, he cant read for shit. But I was young and stupid when I met him at 17. I worked , he didnt and alot of shit when on with him dicipling the kids while I was at work, he has mentally abusive to all of us. After 10 yrs , I left him, way to long I know, but when we were seperated, yes I did cheat on him, mistake I know , because although he was an A hole, I know I hurt him deeply. Well, I met my husband on line , we talked for 6 months then met. Lived together 6 yrs , then got married. So no, I would never cheat on him , he is every thing I ever wanted, he works, good with my kids, he has no biological kids, and we are on the same page ( unlike my illerate X).
He is a bit insecure because I did cheat on my X, but i guess in time, he will trust me completely, cause I love him 2 death.And will never cheat on him!
So, no cheating isnt cool, just something that is exciting and I think people get into a rut that have been married for awhile, or as in my case, just married the wrong guy!!!
Sorry this is so long, do yall understand this, does it make sense?
ps. my x mistreated my boys and they will not forget it, but they have no contact with him, but he is their father (unfortunately), I told them if he wants to go through his lawyer to see them he can, but being he is on SSI, he is 2 cheep!!
Ok , im done Lol
tell me what ya think, but LIP -- I dont need your comments .TY
I'm sorry you had a rough ride but I still believe that you owe it to yourself and others to be honest about things and end one relationship before starting another.:thumbsup: