Cheating

[Reefer Rogue]

If you are in a relationship, this counts for male and female have you ever thought about cheating before?

Even if you are truly in love you must of thought about it but just in your mind at least and not told anyone?

if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.

Yeah.

[cannabis campbell]

I cheated on my first serious boyfriend.. and I hated myself for doing it. I told my boyfriend and broke up with him because I felt so awful. I learned my lesson for sure. My last ex, we were together for about a year and a half. It never even crossed my mind to cheat on him.. I had everything I wanted/needed.

I've always told myself that if I'm ever in a relationship and I'm thinking about cheating, then I should just end it with the boyfriend. I don't want to put him through the crap, I don't want to cheat.. and if I'm thinking about that, then maybe the boyfriend just isn't the right guy for me.

And I'd be straight up honest during the breakup.. I'd tell him that I just want to be single and see other people. It may upset the guy at the time, but it will be better in the long run instead of him finding out that I cheated. And I hope that any guy I'm ever with is like this as well... I'd much rather hear you say you want to be single than to hear that you cheated on me.

if you had everything you wanted / needed why did you cheat on him i mean what was your excuse, too drunk / high or what?

[PureEvil760]

Guys will always..and i mean that..control just about all females they come in contact with..until a girl controls them..truth bitch

[poorprincess]

I follow my heart, I'm a free spirit. We're all free in spirit.

I would like to clarify that statement. I would NOT cheat on my boyfriend. I love him. But we are both people who are aware that we could love more than one person at a time.

In the beginning of our relationship we were both coming out of long term relationships and didn't want to belong to anyone or be tied down. Thats why we said we could love more than one person. But after 1 and a half years of being with him, today he tells me he no longer feels this way, and he does in fact now feel like I belong to him. While he maintains he has a fear of committment, he also wants us to be completely committed to eachother.... so no, I'm will not be dating or anything else with anyone but my boyfriend, Because now I know he wants things to be different.

I can still have boy - friends though.

[NightProwler]

cheating is not for me

[PureEvil760]

^ - sorry that your duality permited this false love. If I made you happy, it is my sole purpose of life. You cannot fix a problem with the same mind that created it. Put no trust into me, I am PureEvil760.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

I don't see love? i just see lust? Imagine if your g/f got in an accident and had a fucked up face or she lost all her hair and it would'nt grow back, would you still love her in the same way? doubtfull... lol

[PureEvil760]

In the beginning of our relationship we were both coming out of long term relationships and didn't want to belong to anyone or be tied down. Thats why we said we could love more than one person. But after 1 and a half years of being with him, today he tells me he no longer feels this way, and he does in fact now feel like I belong to him. While he maintains he has a fear of committment, he also wants us to be completely committed to eachother.... so no, I'm will not be dating or anything else with anyone but my boyfriend, Because now I know he wants things to be different.

I can still have boy - friends though.

FLIP MODE sorry again: So let me get this strait..he tells me he wants to not have you for awhile and fuck hotter girls then come back after that happens. It is already set in stone that you will not cheat I try to enforce this. Now that the EGO connection is telling him there is a fear that he may loose you to another being he must cling to the original fear the original connection which is never ending and will only be filled with fear, madness, lazyness..well basically every sin in the book. He says that you were the least (or one of the least) attractive people he has ever dated. He just wants to fuck other girls but also never loose you..yea this sounds like love to me. If he wants things to be different, it will never happen until the connection is severed. Human's greatest connection must be the intimacy with THEMSELVES, the key is in self-worth..anyone that clings to somone else essencially has no self-worth. I did cling to you as a friend, because that is what I want you to be..but I also want to love you truely..and that cannot be done until you love yourself. Do I love myself? yes..I am set up in a fashion that I will always be a MIRROR for other people to see themselves in..there is no me, you saw me maybe a couple times physically but you have never heard 1 true word because your perception is one of OMG GET THE CONCRETE..SHIT HERE COMES ANOTHER RECKING BALL..ARM THE ROCKET LAUNCHER..GET SOME BRICKS OR SOMTHING..PAINT THE CIELING!! HURRY!! lol this is getting retarded. I have given you my name rank and serial number it is all I know about myself. I can say I love you and mean it, I can say I love him and mean it. Which one of you can do the same? SC RLET69shadow
out. If you wish to trust me, only trust my actions.

[poorprincess]

FLIP MODE sorry again: So let me get this strait..he tells me he wants to not have you for awhile and fuck hotter girls then come back after that happens. It is already set in stone that you will not cheat I try to enforce this. Now that the EGO connection is telling him there is a fear that he may loose you to another being he must cling to the original fear the original connection which is never ending and will only be filled with fear, madness, lazyness..well basically every sin in the book. He says that you were the least (or one of the least) attractive people he has ever dated. He just wants to fuck other girls but also never loose you..yea this sounds like love to me. If he wants things to be different, it will never happen until the connection is severed. Human's greatest connection must be the intimacy with THEMSELVES, the key is in self-worth..anyone that clings to somone else essencially has no self-worth. I did cling to you as a friend, because that is what I want you to be..but I also want to love you truely..and that cannot be done until you love yourself. Do I love myself? yes..I am set up in a fashion that I will always be a MIRROR for other people to see themselves in..there is no me, you saw me maybe a couple times physically but you have never heard 1 true word because your perception is one of OMG GET THE CONCRETE..SHIT HERE COMES ANOTHER RECKING BALL..ARM THE ROCKET LAUNCHER..GET SOME BRICKS OR SOMTHING..PAINT THE CIELING!! HURRY!! lol this is getting retarded. I have given you my name rank and serial number it is all I know about myself. I can say I love you and mean it, I can say I love him and mean it. Which one of you can do the same? SC RLET69shadow
out. If you wish to trust me, only trust my actions.

well if you wanted to hurt me it worked. stop it.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

ummmm, ok... mybe you should talk about this OFF the internet? lol. Instead of making it so your both open to be flamed by loads of immature 13 year olds and before they will make it worse.... lol, i don't really know whats going on, im kinda confused. Just talk to each other face to face.