Cheating

[HiddenBeauty]

I wish I knew how to track my cheating ex down so I could fucking kill him or seriously harm him.Well it wouldnt be me doing it because I am not violent at all and I am usually the one saying no violence but this motherfucker deserves it,plus I think it will haunt me forever until justice is served.

[cannabis campbell]

bumpppp how dare we let this thread burn to the ground!

[birdgirl73]

I'll keep the thread going.

I've had opportunities to cheat plenty of times over the 22 years of my marriage, and I'm proud to say I've never taken a single one of them. Sure, when you're going through a particularly rough patch marriage-wise, it's easy to think about it, but acting on the idea is a whole different thing. I never could. I love my husband too much, and frankly the idea of sex with someone else is downright scary.

Back to what some earlier posters said. I don't think cheating is about sex or about honesty. I think it's often more than anything about self-esteem. Guys who cheat often have shaky enough self-esteem that they have to boost it with some tart on the side. And women with shaky self confidence sometimes try to boost that confidence with six or so inches of someone else's boyfriend or husband--or with just a single guy. Single women who like to cheat with other people's boyfriends or husbands usually feel lower than anyone else. If they really liked or respected themselves, they'd feel they deserved an actual full-time husband or relationship of their own.

I've volunteered for many years in our local women's shelter and been a part of thousands of lay counseling sessions. This self-esteem-cheating thing gets covered over and over again with those ladies, who're often the victims of cheating as well as domestic violence.

[Sabrinaleena]

That is so fucking awesome that you said that. I hope she reads these boards. Sometimes little things like someone else that I don't even know being in love makes me feel really damn good. I'm not even stoned I swear.

I am insanely in love with my girlfriend and i can HONESTLY say that if there were 4 extremely hot chicks infront of me who said they wanted me to cheat on my gf and fuck them i would say no.

I'm not kidding. I've had many girlfriends before but this girl turns my fuckin world upside down.

[NightProwler]

cheating is goddamn awful

[Ganjasaurusrex]

If there is one spiritual emotion that defines cheating it is the feeling of powerlessness.

A person who cheats feels powerless. Not the type of power you may be thinking of.

Sex with others outside of the relationship can never satiate this feeling.

It is emotionally and spiritually impossible to have a sexual connection with a human being and not ignite certain emotional patterns, but they are continual dead-end streets when there is no relationship or true emotional feelings to go with the act.

Therefore, there is a level of brutality, frustration, and eventually emotional disease which results in physical illness and breakdown because a significant pattern is being tremendously abused.

Remember, you do get what you ask for.

Asking for love is asking for the energy of the soul. It brings with it a genuine concern for the other. You cannot prey upon someone else who feels powerless as you, when another's well-being is in you heart.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Have I ever thought about cheating? Yes, many times before, and i had the chance many times before too, but i always say that if i'm going to cheat, then why be in the relationship in the first place? A relationship with someone is made because two people want to be together. If you cheat that breaks that tradition and you don't have the same bond anymore. I would never cheat on my girl friend that i have right now. I have been cheated on so i know how it feels. I'm not that low and stupid to cheat on someone i love because of some lust that comes from some other hot girl. Also, if you cheat on the one you love, they will never forget about it and may never forgive you either. Is losing the one you love truly worth it because of some lust?

[beachguy in thongs]

Guys who cheat often have shaky enough self-esteem that they have to boost it with some tart on the side.

That's wrong. I've cheated a couple times, with two long relationships, and, trust me, it had nothing to do with self-esteem.

But, I noticed that you had said "often". So, forgive me. :smokin:

The second relationship that I cheated, I was high on prescription drugs, trying to take away the pain (which never worked). The first one, I was in High School.

[baisez le monde.]

Of course everyone thinks about it, even when your'e in love, but if you truly love your husband wife gf or bf, then your not gonna do it. its wrong. get a fucking divorce or break up if u wanna bone someone else. shiiiiiit.

[420mory]

listen to "love woman"!