Cheating

[Shelbay]

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Honesty is the biggest key. In an open relationship you still have to show your significant other that he/she comes first! If both partners can handle the jealousy aspect like adults, why not? That's not really cheating though if you have the mutual consent.
The only thing is, these days there's alot more things that can come back to haunt not only you but your number 1. In the old days, at least in my little hick Midwest town (LOL), about the worst that may happen is a case of the crabs. Now it seems that herpes and AIDs are more of a concern. Gotta be VERY careful, giving a gift to your number 1 that will last a lifetime wouldn't be cool at all!

Have a good one..LOL!:thumbsup:

Well you know psycho that all intimacy with another male/female does not always invlove sex...well with me it doesn't haha.My husband is emotionally detached but he encourages my interests and my choice of friends..he trusts me totally..as I do him. I want a friend so bad that likes MJ that I could just spend a weekend hiking with and swimming. He is a great man but he doesn't try to monitor me (only a few times haha)..he trys and lets me make up for all that I missed out in younger years that he has already experienced,I love him! Anyway..I just say trust and honesty are the key.

[Psycho4Bud]

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Well you know psycho that all intimacy with another male/female does not always invlove sex...well with me it doesn't haha.My husband is emotionally detached but he encourages my interests and my choice of friends..he trusts me totally..as I do him. I want a friend so bad that likes MJ that I could just spend a weekend hiking with and swimming. He is a great man but he doesn't try to monitor me (only a few times haha)..he trys and lets me make up for all that I missed out in younger years that he has already experienced,I love him! Anyway..I just say trust and honesty are the key.

Since this is about cheating I'll keep it to the opposite sex...LOL. If I go ridin' with the boys that's cool but If I was hangin' with some lady...that's developing emotional ties that I personally feel is crossing lines. That to me is suppose to be the "sacred" part. As far as sex......DAMN, the only comparison I can think of right now is shooting pool with a stranger at a bar. But that's wrong...LOL. Kind of shows that everyone has their own interpretation of what cheating is....be honest!

Have a good one!:thumbsup: Plotonically speaking of course....LOL

[orangeman]

Yeah, I always think about cheatin, I just think it's exciting lol but I never do it.

[minnesota man]

Love conquers all. It transforms our lives and how we think about stuff. You can say you feel this way or that way not but once you encounter big big love, your views may change.

[cannabis campbell]

true

[da highest]

very true

[WhiskeyGirl]

Well, here is my story:
I was married to guy for 10 yrs 2 kids by him , and I from a previous relationship. My x was all for family and kids , which was kool, but he had a temper and would do assanine shit, like if I walked by the bathroom while he was brushing his teeth, he would flip out and slam the door shut!!?? WTF?
Any way, he had a job when we first got married , then he lost it, he cant read for shit. But I was young and stupid when I met him at 17. I worked , he didnt and alot of shit when on with him dicipling the kids while I was at work, he has mentally abusive to all of us. After 10 yrs , I left him, way to long I know, but when we were seperated, yes I did cheat on him, mistake I know , because although he was an A hole, I know I hurt him deeply. Well, I met my husband on line , we talked for 6 months then met. Lived together 6 yrs , then got married. So no, I would never cheat on him , he is every thing I ever wanted, he works, good with my kids, he has no biological kids, and we are on the same page ( unlike my illerate X).
He is a bit insecure because I did cheat on my X, but i guess in time, he will trust me completely, cause I love him 2 death.And will never cheat on him!
So, no cheating isnt cool, just something that is exciting and I think people get into a rut that have been married for awhile, or as in my case, just married the wrong guy!!!
Sorry this is so long, do yall understand this, does it make sense?
ps. my x mistreated my boys and they will not forget it, but they have no contact with him, but he is their father (unfortunately), I told them if he wants to go through his lawyer to see them he can, but being he is on SSI, he is 2 cheep!!
Ok , im done Lol
tell me what ya think, but LIP -- I dont need your comments .TY

[Nathaniel]

Love Is Everything to Most people
It Everything.
thats the bluntest way to put it.
It The best
and the worst

[psychocat]

Well, here is my story:
I was married to guy for 10 yrs 2 kids by him , and I from a previous relationship. My x was all for family and kids , which was kool, but he had a temper and would do assanine shit, like if I walked by the bathroom while he was brushing his teeth, he would flip out and slam the door shut!!?? WTF?
Any way, he had a job when we first got married , then he lost it, he cant read for shit. But I was young and stupid when I met him at 17. I worked , he didnt and alot of shit when on with him dicipling the kids while I was at work, he has mentally abusive to all of us. After 10 yrs , I left him, way to long I know, but when we were seperated, yes I did cheat on him, mistake I know , because although he was an A hole, I know I hurt him deeply. Well, I met my husband on line , we talked for 6 months then met. Lived together 6 yrs , then got married. So no, I would never cheat on him , he is every thing I ever wanted, he works, good with my kids, he has no biological kids, and we are on the same page ( unlike my illerate X).
He is a bit insecure because I did cheat on my X, but i guess in time, he will trust me completely, cause I love him 2 death.And will never cheat on him!
So, no cheating isnt cool, just something that is exciting and I think people get into a rut that have been married for awhile, or as in my case, just married the wrong guy!!!
Sorry this is so long, do yall understand this, does it make sense?
ps. my x mistreated my boys and they will not forget it, but they have no contact with him, but he is their father (unfortunately), I told them if he wants to go through his lawyer to see them he can, but being he is on SSI, he is 2 cheep!!
Ok , im done Lol
tell me what ya think, but LIP -- I dont need your comments .TY

I'm sorry you had a rough ride but I still believe that you owe it to yourself and others to be honest about things and end one relationship before starting another.:thumbsup:

[WalkaWalka]

I just fucked up a realy good relationship with cheating. Its not worth it. Even if she would take me back I feel so fucking rotten it wouldn't be much fun.