haha o man my friend had a great way of asking if chicks smoked hes like what do you think about smoking weed? if she says its cool say really? same here and if she says no then just be like i know those ppl are dumb.. haha well i mean if thats if you wanna stay friends with the chicks, and well for guys i swear i can tell any guy that smokes weed(but thats just how i feel) and well otherwise just ask dudes and if they wanna be a fag about it and try and say gay shit about you jsut beat their fucking ass