Quote Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
Could you explain to me what 'looking gay' means please?

I guess if you went and had them done cheap they could end up looking a mess.Certain hairstyles are worn to show the kind of lifestyle the person lives,like a rocker or a skater etc.When I think of dreads I think :rasta: or sometimes grunge.
Dreds are deff more grunge if you want to hit it up with the ladies I would say go something else don't get me wrong though I think dreds are great and almost got some myself, then I got sick of my hair and cut it all off (lol).