I would have to say that I would perfer the latter. Traditional lovemaking is overrated. And I believe everyone has something taboo that floats their boat ya know? For me it is rough sex and personally I like to be dominated. To me I get the satisfaction of knowing that I'm allowing the person dominating me to do all the things to me that he's always dreamed of doing to a girl. And I also believe that rough sex releases a lot of tension