I can see why people would prefer 'love making'. But that is SO nOt me! i like it hard, fast and fun. If i have sex, its sex. Im not 'lets make love, babe.' Im a 'make me cum' kinda girl. i find that sex gets boring after a little while if you dont spice the shit up. Being fucked feels way so much better than making love. but, thats just me....