Wow.. Fucking her so called friend? Not cool. Of course her telling you she did not love you and never would was major fucked up too. You should see your kid though and if she cannot deal with that? It is probably best she bailed. I mean she is pretty much taking her anger out on an innocent child by her not wanting to see your own child.

Anyways. That sucks man. But it will get better as time passes. Whatever you do? Do NOT jump right into another realationship with someone else. Focus on yourself and your kids right now.