hello there.. nice to see your taking a interest in growing but doing it in the parents house aint such a hot idea... considering theyll be the one to take the punishment if for any reason some were to go down..

as far has taking that plant to flowering your gunnna have to LST train it or SCRoG or even SOG it .. which you should do a forum search and get a idea of what is going on.

and for "what to pick off" after you change your light cycle from 18/6 or 24/0 (whatever you have it on) to 12/12 you will notice preflowers growing afetr a few weeks and hopefully will be female. (do another search on identifying Males and Female flowers)


also prolly wanna get a little more light in there ;/
good luck!