I would suggest agreeing on a compromise with him. Let him smoke on the weekends, stay clear on school days. The important thing isn't whether or not he uses it, but that he uses it responsibly. Some people just aren't responsible enough to know not to smoke during school, before tests, before work etc. I'd really emphasize that you'll be cool with it if he proves to you that he can still keep his life together while smoking. Just really lay it down on him that he's determining whether or not he's earned your trust and respect.
mrdevious Reviewed by mrdevious on . Hi, I'm new to these boards. And also a concerned parent of a 15yr old son. Don't all gang up on me! I'm here to try to learn about Cannabis and understand why he feels the need to use it. I've known about his use since the summer of 2005, and have gone through all the usual parenty type of reactions: Shock, horror, despair...the end is nigh... that sort of thing. I've spoken to a lot of organisations and his school about it, but it seems that as long as he's not refusing to go to school, stealing cars, using heroin Rating: 5