Quote Originally Posted by Polaris
Hi. Just a quick update.

I've got yet another meeting with his head teacher on Weds morning. At the last one I asked for him to be referred to a local drug awareness organization. Which they've agreed to do.

I'm hoping that he might take on board advice from someone who is impartial and not an authority figure.
Does he know what you are doing??? Are you open about it???


I'm not saying you have to condone whats going on,but you need to convey your love for him and accept his decision unconditionally... You need to approach him as an adult and by all means he needs to feel that not smoking during school or smoking as recreation only is his decision...

Education is good,but if he feels you are constricting,confining or commanding him,,, he will break free in retaliation or spite,you did tell him what you are doing???

I do want to see him post here and see his views,everyone is different and blanket advice may not help you at all... If he is not allowed to see this thread it just proves you are not open with him,,,if he is not allowed to post to this thread it proves the same thing...

Finally my question about Dad was ignored why???