I'm going to talk to him about this his next visit, and I'll cetainly 'not' be telling his mother, lol! He's showing interest in woman, and sex, and it is probably better to explain things sooner than later.

As for the hardcore site, it showed actual sex acts. Nothing wierd like beastiality. (No money shots, either) Even so, I hate to go in detail about the images he saw on-line./shrug

I will put him on punishment, though. Not because of what he looked at, but because he lied to me when I asked. I don't want my boy to think it's ok to lie. He needs to know that he can come to me, and talk about anything w/o stirring up any anger...What kind of punishment do you think would be appropriate in this situation?

Oh, he's alot like me when I was his age. I tore the dirty magazines up at age 9, lol! Only, no one ever told me about the birds and bee's, so I was a bit confused about what I was actually seeing in the mags...All I know is I liked what I saw, lol!

More thought must go into what will actually be said, and how to go about bringing it up w/o embarassing him.

Step by step advice would be cool, haha!