My son discovered internet porn!

[Hempamasta]

Tell him to go to 89.com That's the best site and it has no spyware.

I prefer www.darlina.com personally.

[MullManiac]

I will put him on punishment, though. Not because of what he looked at, but because he lied to me when I asked. I don't want my boy to think it's ok to lie. He needs to know that he can come to me, and talk about anything w/o stirring up any anger...What kind of punishment do you think would be appropriate in this situation?

Dude dont punish him! I think a 9 year old who would openly tell his dad he was looking at porno is pretty fucked up.

Most kids these days are just hearing about that kinda stuff at about that age and are just curious.

[robert42]

at least he wasnt at tubgirl.com

[JunkYard]

Dude dont punish him! I think a 9 year old who would openly tell his dad he was looking at porno is pretty fucked up.

Most kids these days are just hearing about that kinda stuff at about that age and are just curious.

I'm thinking about not letting him get on the pc for a bit. I don't know, maybe a couple weeks. Nothing major, man. I need to let him know that it is far better to be honest with me than to lie about things. Otherwise, he'll keep lying, and we'll never get to the point were he feels he can talk to me about 'anything'. I don't really want to, but it comes with being a parent, man. It's that simple.

I've decided not to make a big issue out of it, though. I'll give him the basics about sex, and girls, and maybe crack a joke, or two. He needs to know that it's ok to be curious about these things. Although, I'll also let him know that internet porn sites aren't the places a 9 year old should be hanging out, and that he'll 'not' be allowed to view such material on-line in the future. Yes, I'll be watching like a hawk, lol!

Maybe we can compromise, and I'll buy him a poster of Stacy Keebler in a bikini? :thumbsup:

That woman is HOT! (He thinks so, too)

[Kush Over]

JunkYard; you're a good father -- laying down the law early to establish a healthy relationship for later.

But throughout the entire time I was randomly checking in on this thread I couldn't help but say to myself; "At least he didn't catch him looking at homosexual pornography."

Don't think I'm the only one that brought this into the light -- almost positive I'm not. Don't mean anything by it, but things could have been worse.


A whole lot fucking worse..

[JunkYard]

lol, yes it could have been worse! Actually it's not that big a deal...I just hate having this conversation with him so young. If he could have only waited til he was 12-13. It would have been MUCH easier, lol!

Oh well, that's the way it goes sometimes...

[Bong30]

Junk,
Just be glad that he didnt find out about it (sex) at school being felt up during a movie.

I have a 5 year old daughter. The was (rubbed in her private spots) during a movie.

I had to sit down with a 5 year old and have a sex talk.

I could have died. We just told the truth.

Good luck... i have 4 year old boy that im sure is going down a simalar path to your boy.

[hubblebubble]

give him the talk for sure, make him feel comfortable but block out the porn for him as it will corrupt his mind

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Just have the talk by 6th grade...PLEASE. I hear way too many stories about the 6th graders and all the dirty things they're doing. It's sad and disgusting and I'm pretty sure they have no idea about the risks they're taking. I can tell you a lovely story about 26 12+13 year olds, a rainbow party and syphillis, if you'd like .

[Easy Roller]

Tell him it's ok to look at porn ...But use reverse psychology to steer him away from the perverted shit!

Tell him that it's NORMAL for young boys to want to look at boobs pussies ...

But the internet is full of perverted shit that aint right for such a young kid...

If you don't use the right mind tricks you'll turn him into porn freek in later life..


All boys of that age are interested in older woman with big jugs [I was and seeing a porn mag was like finding a diamond ]

Kids that young don't know how to wank yet so it's really more of window shop!

But the internet is gonna fuck us all up later down the line!