you're 20 years old, man up. the other day i was burnin a j and my mom was in the kitchen. i did this a few times and i havent a clue had she never known i was smokin right in the next room, the living room. maybe cuz my brothers smoke cigs all the time. she comes in the room and says whats burning. i show her the spliff. its funny cuz she acted all surprised. she knows im growin a plizant, i leave weed bags, weed and my ez wides lyin around all the time, i got high times sittin on my lil table. she shoulda known what i was doing. on top of that she knew i smoked. it did feel weird smokin in front of her though. i felt umcomfortable.