wow man that really sucks, pods will show up on a female first then the hairs will grow out of them, a few things to remember is that the femals pods will grow slower than the males and usually only one on each side of the node to start! when your not sure about male or female just let it grow its not going to release pollen for atleast a week, it has to mature, buy then it will be easy to tell male. female. also a good indicator of males is that the there will be a group of pods and the pods will be raised up! females will remain tucked in to the node! i hope you still end up with a few females! better luck next time.