all those anti depressants probably work......for someone. not all of those drugs work the same for u or me......everyone reacts sumwhat differently. paxil really fucked me up.......however XANAX works great for me. never used zolof but i have seen a few lawyer adds on tv about lawsuits....go figure. as far as sexual side effects........they all have a downside. its like shooting pool with a piece of rope......if u know what i mean. it really sucks to have to take a pill to chill u out and then another just to get hard so u can have sex. i personally think the pharaceutical companies have our minds and dicks in their hands.