Quote Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
The only time you can help or change people is when they want to,so many people make this mistake and waste their own precious time.
very good point... i'm on your side, counseling and helping people change bad habbits and the like can only be done when one admits their problems, and is ready to take responsibility for what they did/do and have their mind set on changing.... even people who want to change but don't put forth the effort will likely fall victim to the same lifestyle/problems they had to begin with... btw, i don't know if it's been clarified yet.. but i do feel remorse for everything i've done, but i guess some of you didn't get that when i made the post about how i'll give a cat all the attention it wants, as long as my hands aren't pre-occupied...