well, as to the nice 26 year old chick you work with, smoke weed with her. often. then one day, when you have a joint, offer her a round of 'supers'...(take a huge hit from the doob, hold it in, and then...you place the joint in your mouth, so the cherry is inside, and hold it with your lips. then you exhale, through the joint...all the smoke in your lungs passes through the J, and picks up even MORE smoke on its way...and she sucks from the other side.) supers is actually how I started dating one girl I used to know...we were doing galaxy rounds...(supers repeatedly, with no fresh air, only smoke. so dangerous.)...and we were so high, we didn't notice that the J was on the ground. but hey! we were making out, so it worked out pretty well.