Quote Originally Posted by Kryzco
I'm not that old, and he's not that young, 2 years to be exact

and I agree with ya 100% graph, thats what I come to realize and thats why I've been trying to avoid that situation altogether, I'm smartining up slowly

But its kinda weird because he's the one who always initiates everything, I've always been the one who says its gotta end and he'll agree to me, but then the next time he see's me he tries to be all affectionate, I didn't say sexual, I said affectionate, all lovey dovery bullshit, and well yeah, I was being stupid and I kept falling for it.....

Its pretty much all done now, I see him a lot less now, and when I do, I'm pretty much very distant at the moment, I just told him straight up, I'm fuckin done with it, it was a fun ride while it lasted and thats it, and I mean it this time, because I do, I got better things to do with my time.....

But to you guys I wanna thank ya, and if anyone else has any input, please feel free to put ur 2 cents in...

All I keep thinking is time heals all wounds, learn from your mistakes, and this too shall pass
Hmm, where to start..

Ah, relationships can be quite the complicated thing. But one thing that makes a relationship work is simply love for one another and close friendship. From what I've been reading here I have seen nothing except a man who cannot keep his dick out of his pants, sorry if I offended. To me, he seems to be an individual who saw an opportunity since he saw a woman looking for comfort from a broken relationship and he saw a weakness through affection. Basically he wanted nothing except sex.

Also by using the relationship both families have he figured that would be his edge since you would feel uncomfortable telling him to back off since the family would notice. Of course, one cannot deny some good sex but, as I see it, that's all it was. Now it is time to move on and file away this short experience.

But you mustn't let his affectionate feeling overcome you. Remember, he uses it simply to get some more because he knows you give in when he becomes all lovely dovey. There will be nothing more than sex so if this isn't what you want, then it's about time to end it. I know there are complications with the family but keep this in mind: If it was to continue, it'll only get more complicated.

Trust me, he'll get over it because he didn't have any feelings for you in the first place. He just saw a friend of the family needing sex and he took advantage of it. Oh sure, he'll put up his act and try to make you feel bad so you give in again but if you keep stern, he'll eventually give up.

Will you lose him as a friend or cause problems with the family? I cannot say for certain but ending it now will lessen the size of the problem. Personally I think he'll just give up and stop if you keep stern. I doubt he'll jeopardize the family relationship because if he did, he'll be the one looking like an ass since he'll look like nothing more than a sex-crazed maniac.

Just be true to your heart and let this go. All this means is that there is someone out there you are destined to meet who will bring warmth to your heart, but the only way that'll happen is if you have no ties to the past. Start with a fresh mind. Well that's my two cents .

Peace,
The Duderino
Theduderino Reviewed by Theduderino on . Help, advice would be appreciated.... I got out of a 2 year relationship in september, and I was still sleeping with him for a few months but then I decided to stop because I needed to just move on and so did he, I didn't want him to remain attached to me especially since we were each others firsts... Well a month before hand, I met a guy through mutual friends and it turned out our families knew each other, my brother grew up with his cousin, and my best friend used to date his other cousin, well me and the new guy started to Rating: 5