You know that old saying about a guys dick: "It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it" ? It's the same with a woman. Tight, loose, whatever, if I've got a woman sittin on top, grinding away, totally getting into it and riding me like a bucking bronco I'm not going to complain one way or another. On the other hand, if she just lies there like a dead fish with a "get it over with" look on her face, just being tight isn't going to make it any better.