hmm, you want support and forgiveness, however, you are unable to provide those things yourself. You hurt your girlfriend but think her hurting you is inappropriate. Her level of expressing her feelings only show how much you hurt her. Your chrysler isn't shit compared to a life long loving relationship. One day that chrysler will go from a prized possession to just transportation to you. Your value of your chrysler WILL change, however, you will never look at your wife and see her just as someone who keeps you company like your dog might. Your car will depreciate with time, your wife will appreciate with time.

You'd better take 5, learn how to forgive, learn how to grow up, learn how to determine what is really valuable. Things like cars (no matter where you got them or how much they mean to you) can be easily replaced with money. Try replacing your loving relationship with money. All you'll get is a whore.

The things you two are experiencing are the things that forge your relationship into something unbreakable. Hang in there, quit the poem crap and act like an adult. Many times I wanted to "shit on my wife" but now there's nothing she can do that will make me hate her. My old lady could burn my house down and I'd say "I didn't like that house much anyway". When you're young your "toys" seem so valuable to you, but rest assured one day, you would gladly give up anything money could buy to have her back.

Keep your focus....get yourself to where you want to be. The rest will follow. She is only venting her anger hurting you in a way that she knows will register. That alone says she must care for you considerably otherwise, she'd have left you alone and never uttered a word about it. She must care for you a lot, otherwise, she'd have just abandoned you without a word. That relationship can be salvaged, but you must decide if that's what you want and accept all those "punishments" willingly.

GM