What should i do (Big problem)

[minnesota man]

That's fucked up.

As for your need for drugs, I know how you feel. I've scrapped the basement floor to find a little ash that might get me high. It fucking sucks. Just wanted to tell you, you're not alone.

minnesota man Reviewed by minnesota man on 03-20-2006. What should i do (Big problem) So after a week of spring break back in my home town I return to my college town to settle down and get prepared to go back to school. My girlfriend calls me up and says she has made dinner reservations and she would pick me up at 5. So she comes and picks me up at 5, but instead of going to dinner she tricks me into going babysitting with her. So we arrive at the person we are babysitting for (which I didnâ??t like because I was high at the time not knowing we were going babysitting and I get Rating: 5

[psychocat]

dam i swear all ya ppl dont read/cant read
i said i gave the ppl there pills back cause they were screaming at my gf and she was in tears and then the guy smoked me right in my face (by smoked i mean wound up and cracked me one in the head)
So 1st off i gave there pills back
2nd i already appologized to them
3rd its a mother fuckin chrysler 300 and i have the money to get it fixxed
4th im not going to let her appologize to me. she fucked with my dead mothers shit that is a god dam discrase she new that car means the world to me
5th im going to be big im going to be huge im going to be sombody in this world, i will make her want me back just to stick her face in the dirt and take a big shit on her

You're unbelievable dude.
You get her in shit and steal from folks and then bitch when payback comes a calling. It's called karma dude. I am sorry about your motor and I admire you having the balls to apologise to the folks who's shit you took, but this girl is obviously pissed at you because of your stupidity and the grief you caused her. Be a man and take it on the chin ,try to learn this from it, you fuck with others and it gives them the right to fuck with you.

IMO you don't need help you need a fuckin slap.

[turtle420]

Wow!!!

I'm away for 12 hours and many things have happened...

Terps, good for you.

I've got to be 100% honest...

1st - Nice work on talking with the folks. DON'T LOOSE CONTACT WITH THEM YOU ASSWIPE!!!
2nd- Get a new paint job with your car... yeah, yeah, I know.... in the future. But, as ^^^ said, take it in the chin. Fuck it.
3rd- Don't retaliate with your ex... why?
4th- I've come to believe, that your girlfriend is similary fucked-up.

I don't think you should hang-out with her, or seek her.

If you where doing drugs, I'm about 98% sure she also does all those drugs. Maybe not as fucked up as you are (were... sorry), but she does them.

If that's the case, you'll never quit.

Either
A- You both become junkies.
B- She realizes you're a junkie looser, and leaves you for a better man...
C- You realize she isn't the best game, and leave her for a better woman... or better life.

And you and Kryzco,... take it easy... don't go meeting each other in Minnesota and starting some fires... only small weed fires...

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I was gonna post... but I want to convince you not to do anything to get back at her for your car...

Look at it in this light:
Her fucking up your car, has just deposited a SHITLOAD of "action points" in your bank account...

If she every comes bitchin' for whatever reason... you remind her of the car.

But if you do something in return, you're back to zero in your "action points" account.

Learn from Sun Tzu dude... lie to your enemies.

Peace out Terp...

-turtle420
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[SomeGuy]

wow....this was like reading a small book.

It was the right thing to do talking to the parents and I honor you for that...
I dont think you should go for revenge though...
All this anger will only make things worse. Turn the other cheek and forgive. Youve made mistakes and are on the path to overcoming them (hopefully) and she has the right to making mistakes too.

Look at her point of view...The guy she loved turned out to be a completely different person thatn she though, and then runs off into the night, leaving her vulnerable at these peoples house.

I think the only thing now is to call her up and tell her EVERYTHING...or write her a long notw with most all of the stuff you have posted on here. It mayn not save your relationship, but it will save yall both alot of stress.

Another thing is I think you should check out churchs about drug programs. God is a big factor in helping lost of people fix their lives. Even though this whole thing dosnt look that great it seems as if God our some higher power has thrown a wrench in your life to give you an oppertunity to fix it.

Peace & Love Man
Hope everthing works out...
post back

[GluteusMaximus]

hmm, you want support and forgiveness, however, you are unable to provide those things yourself. You hurt your girlfriend but think her hurting you is inappropriate. Her level of expressing her feelings only show how much you hurt her. Your chrysler isn't shit compared to a life long loving relationship. One day that chrysler will go from a prized possession to just transportation to you. Your value of your chrysler WILL change, however, you will never look at your wife and see her just as someone who keeps you company like your dog might. Your car will depreciate with time, your wife will appreciate with time.

You'd better take 5, learn how to forgive, learn how to grow up, learn how to determine what is really valuable. Things like cars (no matter where you got them or how much they mean to you) can be easily replaced with money. Try replacing your loving relationship with money. All you'll get is a whore.

The things you two are experiencing are the things that forge your relationship into something unbreakable. Hang in there, quit the poem crap and act like an adult. Many times I wanted to "shit on my wife" but now there's nothing she can do that will make me hate her. My old lady could burn my house down and I'd say "I didn't like that house much anyway". When you're young your "toys" seem so valuable to you, but rest assured one day, you would gladly give up anything money could buy to have her back.

Keep your focus....get yourself to where you want to be. The rest will follow. She is only venting her anger hurting you in a way that she knows will register. That alone says she must care for you considerably otherwise, she'd have left you alone and never uttered a word about it. She must care for you a lot, otherwise, she'd have just abandoned you without a word. That relationship can be salvaged, but you must decide if that's what you want and accept all those "punishments" willingly.

GM

[Terps]

So the story goes on...
Katie (my x-gf) calls me up today, i ignord her first 50 calls just like she did mine, and then i picked up she was in tears. balling about hows she sorry she did that to my car and blah blah, then she goes on about how much she has missed me and how she wants to come over...so i tell her to come over and we can talk, she gets to my house and she is so fucked up she tripps on my shoes and falls face first to the floor, i help her up and dust her off and i bring her to my couch and tell her how sorry i am and immedeitly she says "Forget about it" and attempts to make-out with me. i push her away as i know shes just drunk and wants to fuck. Now she gets angry demanding that i have sex with her or she will ruin my life, she says abunch of stuff like "I will call the cops and tell them u raped me" "I will call the cops and tell them about your drug problem" "i will call the university and tell them what you did" "i will call all your friends and tell them what you did" so on and so on the bitch came up with so many reasons that i should have sex with her it wasnt even funny i just sat there, thinking thinking about the 36 mafia song "Pussy got you hooked" i waqs about to cave in and have sex with her but then came the vurse that say "HELL NAH!"...i looked at her slapped her accrosed the face and kicked her out of my house. i told her if she ever comes back or ever fucks with my shit one more time i will get the cops involved myself.

This was realy weird i love the girl to death but at the same time i dont...

why do i feel this way???

[GluteusMaximus]

You hit her? WTF for? Man, if you can't control your anger, then you have no hope in ever keeping a relationship. My old lady can beat me with a ball bat and I'd never hit her. You did the right thing by making her leave, however, she can now press charges against you for assult, which you rightfully deserve. Now I ask you, can you ever take that slap back? Is there any chance she will feel totally secure with you? I doubt it. You just permanently ended that relationship. I hope that's something you can live with. You'd better hope you one day find someone who will make you forget your girlfriend, because if you can't, you're gonna be one lonely dude.

I was reluctant to post this, but it's time you've read this little poem.

If...
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!";
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!


Best of luck to you,

GM

[likemclever]

Sorry starting no to believe your strange ass story.

[mike jones]

Hey Terps,

I can go on and on telling you what you did right and what you did wrong, but there are plenty of other members here that will give you their two cents. I just wanted to wish you good luck in sorting out everything thats going on. Take care.

[HiddenBeauty]

You two belong together,you are both fucked up I think.

You gave us bullshit in your first post saying you could of beat the fuck out of that guy whose pills you stole when really you only have the balls to hit women.I hope karma kicks your ass or someone else does and if/when it happens please tell me about it I need something to smile about.