One thing is for sure Daima, although I may not agree that bringing a child into a headshop is a good idea, I can see that you have taken a very active role in bringing up your kids and this is what's most important. Too many people just take parenting for granted, don't think about what they are doing, and just hope the kids will work out. It's not always about whether the specific choices that you make are right and wrong. The fact that a person takes an active role with their kids, and makes the choice in the first place, is what makes them a good parent.:thumbsup: