Quote Originally Posted by kizazz83
hey i really love this guy(partyguy) and ive moved into his house and given up like almost my whole life for him. weve been dating for 4 mnts and now he says he doent know if he loves me anymore. ive been crying my eyes out for him and i dont know what to do. on top of all that, hes been hangin out with this chick all by himself, shes 13 hes 16, but he says they are just friends. well he hangs out with her all day than comes home talks to me for bout 30 secs, than calls her and talks for 2 and a half hours. i cant lose him, ive been through this too many times. please help. deb loves billy.
just thought id point out a few things about this situation, that would support the fact that neither of you are ready for... well.... anything..

"dating for 4 months" - thats long enough to become friends, not roommates

"given up whole life for him" - for someone youve known 4 months? you havent been together long enough to decide whether or not hes the "one"

"hes 16" - hes 16, and lives by himself? - well anyway, DEFINITLY too young to handle any sort of mature relationship, especially if he's robbin' the cradle for someone who hasnt even had their first period yet..

- bottom line is this -

both of you are way too young to tackle such a commitment, i thought i was ready, i was 19, but i couldnt have been more incorrect..

have fun! your young, dont be tied down this early, youll have plenty of time later on in life for someone to say "BITCH DO THEM DISHES!" or to cheat on you with an infant...

enjoy