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[Stfu its Matthew]

PARTY GUY AND KIZAZZ ARE THE SAME PERSON!! ARE YOU ALL RETARDED? HE JUST HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM! IDIOTS FUCK MAH MANS RIGHT AFTREALL

Stfu its Matthew Reviewed by Stfu its Matthew on 04-06-2006. help me hey i really love this guy(partyguy) and ive moved into his house and given up like almost my whole life for him. weve been dating for 4 mnts and now he says he doent know if he loves me anymore. ive been crying my eyes out for him and i dont know what to do. on top of all that, hes been hangin out with this chick all by himself, shes 13 hes 16, but he says they are just friends. well he hangs out with her all day than comes home talks to me for bout 30 secs, than calls her and talks for 2 and Rating: 5

[HiddenBeauty]

What the hell makes you think it is the same person?? Are some of you jealous because he is getting some and some of you couldn't get any even if you offered to pay for it.

[kizazz83]

What the hell makes you think it is the same person?? Are some of you jealous because he is getting some and some of you couldn't get any even if you offered to pay for it.

lol thanx, lmfao. glad somebody isnt acting like a fuckin grade shooler.

[Stfu its Matthew]

u guys are fuckin retards LOl

[slipknotpsycho]

after scrutinizing (sp) random posts made by both kizazz and partyguy, it seems unlikely they are the same person. people rarely change their grammar/punction/spelling, even if they are pretending to be someone else (they may try to emulate words used by the said impersonated person, but they rarely will change their grammar/spelling/punctuation to match, especially when in anger) and if you look closely, kizazz uses alot more periods then party guy, spells generally better, not to mention the wording.

if you ask me, i say they are two diffrent people, or one very clever person (very unlikely, especially over something as meaningless as a message board, and just to make themselves look better) so i say anyone that thinks they're fake is retarded, not the other way around.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

You can fall in true love at a young age, i mean, shes 17 so imo she's practicly an adult. In america u have to be 21 to drink alcohol and i guess thats when you guys think your grown up. But down here you have to be 18 and 16 to legally screw. I think you guys have it the wrong way around, anyway yea, it is very possible. If 2 people are looking for the same things, someone to love and someone to love them and comfort them. 2 people forget all about they're problems when they're together and always feel safe and like nothing else matters, and when you care for someone this much you know its love because you've never felt about a person like this before. If you both bond together and you enjoy each others company and u both need the same thing, then i think that it could get very seroius, no matter what the age. Sex is just a plus like kizazz83 said. Its something a couple does together to bond and to show each other how much the relationship means, having sex and then cuddling and talking for hours and just enjoying each others company is love in my HONEST opinion. enjoying each others company so much you don't care about the sex, your just glad your with them and EVERY time your not with them, you feel lonley. That is what love is.

lol, sorry for all the spellin mistakes and if that made no sense. Im pretty baked and its hard to think right now.

P.S: oh shit i just got beer everywhere...

[budmunchkin]

Kiz,
Find the book "He's just not that into you", buy it, read it, memorize it. It is written by a couple of the writers of Sex in the City. It is humorous, but has some points I think you can relate with. Sounds like partyguy is just not that into you and fishing in dangerous waters with the 13 year old.

[slipknotpsycho]

you answer is simple as this, if you love him, do what it takes to stay with him, BUT doing so while not jeapordizing your possible future in other affairs (work, carrer, other loves, so on) there's no problem in holding on for love, nothing is for free, even love, you have to work for it just like everything else, you have to work, to make it work, but there's a very large diffrence between holding on and trying to keep a relationship together, then living in denial.. use your own judgement, your heart is usually right, but the brain is ALWAYS right, if your heart feels it, and your brain doesn't, then it's time to sit down and talk about stuff, sort out the problems, and figure out if the relationship can even work. sad as it is, even when some are in love, sometimes it's just better for all parties involved to seperate, sometimes for awhile, sometimes permanantly, and kizazz, don't take this as a "your only a kid, you can't possibly love" type post, but it is very rare that the first person you 'love' really ends up being the one you end up with long-term, and truely loving. it is possible to fall in love at that age, but you have alot more men you're going to come across (maybe even women :thumbsup, and at somepoint, you may wonder, why you stuck with someone you thought you loved, and put yourself through that torment, when you could have just moved on (been there done that, i talk from experience) good luck in whatever affairs/decisions you two have from this point on, but remember, just becuase it feels right in your heart, doesn't mean it is right... just some things to think about.