again you shouldnt' lie.. if they can't accept you for what you are, then they are worthless, they aren't worht your time. if they want you to change even one thing, no matter how small it may be, there will be more, and more and more, until the relationship finally snaps, bettter for you to just get out of it now.. then drag either of you on more and more... lying is bullshit, keeep it real, keep it truthful, spare no detail, if they can't deal with it, then oh well there is someone out there who will, not trying to bring you down, but i woul dnever change for ANYONE i don't give a fuck how much i love them, i've been married 2 years with a kid, if it came down to me changing or her leaving me, then... goodbye to her, just on principal alone, i will not change simply because you disagree with what i'm doing, i may hear your case then decide i will stop, but if it's a 'change or we're over for good' type of thing i will leave you (btw, to someone who i know will read this and call me a hypocrite, changing bad habbits and changing degrade-some pesonalities, and changing are two diffrent things)