yea thanks for the suggestions.....i had aready began compiling resources and things to show to my parents to prove that its the safest alternative.....but i know there gonna come back with "why do you have to do anything? why do you have to alter your mind?"

i dont know how to answer that.....b/c i want to and it relaxes me, b/c school stresses me out? like there is no good answer to that question