Mike, I think you've solved it. I do think too much , when ever I have a problem I sit down and try to think it out, thanks for your help. Any other idea of something to bring down your nerves? Im thinkin of drinkin a bit of beer b4 i go out with her. Not fucking loaded drunk but drunk but can still co-operate normally without people knowing, just that my nerves will be down. Good idea or bad?