This Sucks...

[soxsuk6432]

Today my Mom called my friends parents and told them I smoked. Now one of them isn't supposed to hang out with me and the others parents are really sketched out. I was considering confronting my Mom because she said she wouldn't punish me as long as I was honest about my smoking habits after she caught me for the 3rd time. Should I talk to her or should I just let it slide and pretend I don't know it happened because I think that's pretty fucked up that she'd do that when she knows they won't be able to hang out with me.

soxsuk6432 Reviewed by soxsuk6432 on 03-10-2006. This Sucks... Today my Mom called my friends parents and told them I smoked. Now one of them isn't supposed to hang out with me and the others parents are really sketched out. I was considering confronting my Mom because she said she wouldn't punish me as long as I was honest about my smoking habits after she caught me for the 3rd time. Should I talk to her or should I just let it slide and pretend I don't know it happened because I think that's pretty fucked up that she'd do that when she knows they won't Rating: 5

[tootsie roll]

Yah, that does suck and it was kinda mean to do. If you want to punish her and make her crazy, pretend you don't know about it. She's prolly waiting for your reaction.

[soxsuk6432]

I was thinking about playing the guilt trip as I'm not to popular. Like if I just stayed home every day and didn't do anything. And when she ask just say that those were my only friends. Or I could just hang out with my friends that she doesn't know (all the hardcorestoners). Really she kind of shot herself in the foot if she was trying to make me quit. The only parents that don't care if there kids smoke are the really big smokers so that just means I'll be hanging around them alot more.
I'm surprised one of the parents didn't send me home when I came over today instead she treated me normal and even invited me to stay for dinner. I think she realizes I've made her son a better person and that I made her son be himself and he isn't afraid to show his intelligence anymore. Hopefully with time the other parent will see the same thing.

[lemonboy]

You should talk with her and be completely honest if possible. Explain that damaging your reputation doesn't produce the results she is, in no doubt, vying for. Though, being young means dealing with trivial consequences. Enjoy them, hate them, it's all the same 10 years from now.

[soxsuk6432]

What was the point she was trying to vy for. To me it seems like she decided to be vindictive instead of talk to me about it just go and tell my friends Moms that I smoke. It looks like she wanted to make me lonely or something. Luckily being grounded for 3 and a half months made me get used to being alone most of the time.

[3rdEyeVision]

just get blazed whenever her friends come over and leave your bong out and stuff so her friends wont want ta come their anymore lol,thats somethin I would do hahaha im such an asshole

[soxsuk6432]

You know that's not a bad idea...
Usually my mom and I have a good relationship, because I'm the only one in the family who treats her with respect, but if she's not going to respect my decisions maybe I should do like my Dad and brother and be an assfuck.

[likemclever]

Really she kind of shot herself in the foot if she was trying to make me quit. The only parents that don't care if there kids smoke are the really big smokers so that just means I'll be hanging around them alot more.

Maybe you should explain this to her...I bet she didn't even think about that.

[soxsuk6432]

It's already done so it doesn't matter if I tell her because she can't take it back.

[likemclever]

I'm just saying if you bring this to her attention maybe next time she will give it a little more thought before she does something like that.