yea, i know what you're saying
hang in there! you'll think of something. I think the BEST advice would be to go with your first instinct. what do you reallyyyy want more? pick whatever answer pops into your head first.

maybe give it a try if you like her that much and see how it goes. And chances are that you aren't gonna get married so its not like you cant ever smoke again lol (but if it were me i would prob choose weed bc a lot of my best friends smoke too and it would be torture just watching them do it without me)

and also if you do this one thing for her, she might think she can get you to do anything for her (keep that in mind too)