there is no such thing as fate or predestination..you are completely in control of your life, the things that happen around are indeed a set up..a test. Think of it this way you are in school and there is a test infront of you..you can crumble it up and throw it away, make a paper airplane and fly it out the window, randomly mark it and fail, or put effort into it and pass. This is just like life, the test was written by YOU before you came to earth therefore you are responsible for everything that has happend in ur life, it is all part of the test, you can do ANYTHING you want to do in life there is no prededestination. If you were sent to earth as a hammer, you would probably eventually be in the company of nails this is not predestination, this is LOGIC.

I've found the key to happiness, I have flat out cryed like a motherfucker out of happiness multiple times it is the globe of essence, find it and you will have an endless supply of happiness, joy, humor and health.