Quote Originally Posted by LOVElife
My lass, didn't smoke it when she was pregnant, and now she has had the baby she doesn't smoke it anymore.

I know I will get shit for this, but I see smoking bongs and shit as a male activity. It just aint' very ladie like!

haha, now that i would have to disagree with!

I mean, my favorite person in the whole world smokes, and she's also my favorite person to get stoned with! I find it very "lady like" for a woman to smoke some Marijuana with me. If thats what to call it -- lady-like.

But as for the question, I believe that, while it has been proven not to do anything to your baby, and its like a lot of people have been saying... "its better safe than sorry."

I would not like it if I got a girlfriend (I still have yet to get one, but I have the said girl above in mind!) pregnant, I would tell her not to do any drugs what-so-ever, including pain medications. I don't care what the Medical world thinks on this one, I say absolutely nothing shall going into a woman while she's pregnant, even if its proven to not hurt the baby (I'm talking medications). It would be not very fair to the baby, if you he/her has to live a life not to his/her fullest because of something you took while you were pregnant with him/her.

And I'm not one of those "Pro-life" people who are against abortions. And while I am also agains't them, I believe that it is a woman's choice, no in fact, it should be a couples choice. I read somewhere that if you're not married to the pregnant woman, she can have an abortion without your approval..... and I don't quite understand that. I mean sure if she was raped or something... if a guy accidently gets a girl pregnant, well then he should be in on the decision too.