Remember it's Chris Rock we're talking about here. He uses terms like murder as much for comedic effect as for any other reason. I'd like to believe that most stable folks do not contemplate killing anyone that has not severely wronged them. There are always tense moments in long term relationships and after 25 years, I can't recall ever wanting to kill my spousal unit or my kids. That being said, I have, at one time or another, contemplated a good whack up side the head for all of them but reason prevailed each and every time. I have often said jokingly that my teens have no idea how close they have come to being tossed down the basement stairway, teens being what they are. (although the kids got the occasional swat on the fanny or hand from time to time to get thier attention, and I believe all three of them have gotten at least one slap on the cheek for crossing the line when speaking to thier mother)