So why can't the man get a vasectomy if he's so worried? If you don't want kids and you don't trust women, get one and be by yourself your whole life. More power to you. But sleeping around and not claiming any responsability is like firing a gun in the air and not caring where the bullet lands.

also, if guys shouldn't have kids, how the hell is anyone gonna be born? Were you a planned child? I know I sure as hell wasn't, but I'm happy as hell and I do my part to try and better the world.