Advice please

[Little Miss Blinky]

My mate is 4 wks pregnant and very confused
the bloke whose baby it is dont want her to keep it
what should she do


Thanks

MissBlinky

Little Miss Blinky Reviewed by Little Miss Blinky on 03-03-2006. Advice please My mate is 4 wks pregnant and very confused the bloke whose baby it is dont want her to keep it what should she do :confused: Thanks MissBlinky Rating: 5

[digweed]

if she cant look after it one her own abortion seems the answer.

[Little Miss Blinky]

she lives alone in a 2 bedroom flat quite big with big spare room
but Im not sure being 26 if shes ready .

[Torog]

My mate is 4 wks pregnant and very confused
the bloke whose baby it is dont want her to keep it
what should she do


Thanks

MissBlinky

Howdy Miss Blinky,

How old is your friend ? Does she have the support and help of her family ?

As for the bloke who got her that way and doesn't want to be responsible for his own child-I'd beat the living daylights out of em,if your friend was my daughter ! I have a daughter who will be turning 26 this month and I told her to never abort a child if she gits pregnant-that I'd raise the child myself,if I have to.

The way I see it-all children are born innocent-no matter the sins of their fathers and mothers,and each child has the potential to save humanity.

Have a good one !

[Torog]

she lives alone in a 2 bedroom flat quite big with big spare room
but Im not sure being 26 if shes ready .

Howdy Miss Blinky,

Dang..I didn't see yer post till after I posted my reply,wow..this really hits home with me,being that she's about the same age as my daughter.

I think that she really should carry the child to term and sue the father for as much as she can in the way of child support and help with the medical bills. A child will transform her life for the better,every child is a blessing and should be treasured.

Have a good one !

[psychocat]

Unwanted pregnancy raises the question of just how serious people are about the consequences of what they do. The pill ,condoms and other forms of contraceptive should have made unwanted pregnancies a thing of the past and yet still people take that gamble. Abortion is a choice, but I personally can't say what would be "best" for all concerned and at 26 I would think that someone should be mature enough to deal with the situation they themselves created. Either way she will have to be capable of living with the choice she makes, the guilt that a lot of women feel at having terminated a life can exact a heavy toll but an unwanted child brings it's own problems.
I have been in the situation where my partner decided abortion was the best option but she has had problems living with the choice she made.
Tough call either way but it's something only she and the guy can decide.

[chisme]

My mate is 4 wks pregnant and very confused
the bloke whose baby it is dont want her to keep it
what should she do


Thanks

MissBlinky

lmao lmao lmao im just simply amazed that your asking us that


how about this one my gf's mates tits are hairy should she shave them?


duh if a bloke dont wanna have a baby wiv u dont have it? wait untill she's got 2 parents on the list

[pabloescobar209]

Adoph Hitler's mother was considering an abortion, but was talked out of it by her doctor...

[highjinx]

Adoph Hitler's mother was considering an abortion, but was talked out of it by her doctor...

LMAO!

[likemclever]

first off you don't need a man to raise a child. You just need them for the first part and then you can just get rid of there worthless asses.

It just floors me how SOME guys can just have the attitude of "not my problem" and just take of like they are leaving you with the dinner check. They abandon there own children without a care in the world. Itâ??s a good thing that men are not responsible for the survival of the species. This is not a total dump on men cause believe me there a quite a few dirt bag mothers.

I was 26 when I had my child and your friend will be OK. My advice would be to have the child. And document everything about the fatherâ?¦document every single dollar he gives her, every phone call he makes to herâ?¦.everything. Typically what happens is that the looser guy goes and lives his life as he pleases without a care in the world until that child turns about 5 years old or so. Then they come to the realization that their own children despise them because of the abandonmentâ?¦.then all of the sudden they want to â??playâ?� father.

Document everythingâ?¦.go to court and get sole custody.

Just another thing I bet this guyâ??s parents donâ??t know about the childâ?¦.maybe someone should tell them.

Most parents would be furious to know that their son is a coward who is running out on their Grandchild. His parents may want to help support their grandchild even if their son doesnâ??t.