ok. so what you need to do is find a needle, steralize it with rubbing alcohol, put it through your ear and insert jewlery. the thing is you need to do it fast, i tried piercing my hip and it took me half an hour and i was a bloody mess. after its in, use a pinch of sea salt in a shot glass full of warm water and soak for a good 5 or so minutes each day until you think its good. have fun.