When its over its over.

You cant go back because you go back to what ended it in the first place which is typically contempt or resentment.

So when you go back, you go back to a dirty slate.

You cant go back because there is only now and the future, whats done is done.

Men who believe that with enough time a woman will "see the light", still believe in toothfairies and that you can go back!

So remember you can't go back because:

1. She will get rid of you (again)
2. She hasn't changed.
3. She is going to hurt you some more.

Dont humiliate your self and lower your worth by trying to get back together.

Start getting phone numbers and being seen with new women asap.